The most important factor to make her feel the love inside the Valentines gift is to give the gift with sincerity, which means the idea has to come from your heart. I’m not saying you have to spend hours on meditation about what you should give her or look for the perfect gift on the internet, because we all know even if we find the perfect gift for her this year, what you are going to give her the next year or what you are going to give her on her birthday that’s only a couple months away?
So I guess what I’m trying to say here is that gift doesn’t have to be perfect or very expensive. Sometimes the most easy, affordable and meaningful Valentine gift is right before your eyes. That’s right it’s flowers and card. I know that’s such a cliché and people have been using it for hundreds of years. But do you ever wonder why such a cliché never fade away on the historical stage? The answer is very simple, the deep meaning and continuous innovation. If you are thinking just buy some flowers and a common festival card like most of the insensitive guys right now, then you couldn’t be more wrong.
Always remember women are sensitive, they don’t really care that much about how expensive your gift is, what they do care is how much thought you’ve put into the gift. So here’s what you can do to make her remember this Valentines Day more than ever.
Find out her favorite flowers in a secret way, ask her friends or parents but don’t let her have any clue that you are buying flowers for her. Then you need to decide the number of the flowers you should buy and better make it meaningful, like if the date you and her first met was 20 th, then you can buy her 20 flowers. And remember to tell her why you buy 20 when you give the flowers to her, I’m sure she’ll surprised you are such thoughtful guy and will love you even more.
Card is also a key role in this. You need to write with your own hand no matter how ugly you think your handwriting is. And make sure what you write is not just a few love sentences or love you, you are my soul, and all that. If you want to impress her and make your card special you need to write something special, like a typical small event happened between you two, a trip you took together or even a fight. And you can write down your feelings about how sorry you are that you were yelling at her or you were so impatient with her every now and then, etc. Those true stories and true feelings can touch women’s very soul.
So never look down upon small gifts as long as it’s from your heart.